I left Cavite around 2017, returning a couple of years later, but I found myself changed in ways I never anticipated. Despite my efforts to slip back into the familiar rhythm of my former life, I realized I had evolved significantly during my absence. I emerged a different person, emboldened by newfound courage and a “seize the day” mindset.

In 2020, just before the lockdown took hold, I departed once again, my departure shrouded in a tale you wouldn’t believe. During the lockdown and the subsequent years, I cultivated a strong bond between Jason and my family. Though initially awkward and cringe-worthy, it was a hurdle we had to overcome together.

Fast forward to 2024, and my dad even considered Jason when purchasing a new car. Witnessing this newfound acceptance warmed my heart, signifying the healing of old wounds and the introduction of Jason to my entire family. Everything seemed to fall back into place, and I received their heartfelt blessing.

It’s become a habit now, visiting my parents regularly, often with my brother in tow, temporarily completing our family circle. These moments are treasures we cherish. On one such occasion, we gathered for lunch at Botejyu in SM Bacoor.

It had been years since my last visit to SM Bacoor, and I was pleasantly surprised by its transformation. What was once a modest branch of the SM chain had blossomed. I chuckled to myself at the sight of Banapple, a stark contrast to my previous perceptions. Yet, as I glanced inside, Banapple seemed devoid of patrons. The irony wasn’t lost on me.

Nevertheless, my parents adore dining at smb. It’s become a nightly ritual after their long commute from Manila, knowing they lack the energy to cook. they’re getting old, but i admire their dedication to work and understand the hardships in letting go of a routine.